Jun
11
2010
The subject of stuttering is a very interesting one. It is an area where people who have been unable to eradicate their stutter run their own blogs where they advise other people to accept their stutter! Do you have any idea as to why they do this? Their negativity makes other people believe that there is not a cure for stuttering. So this begs the question, is there a cure for stuttering?
In simple terms these stuttering bloggers should be ashamed of themselves. Just because they have failed in their quest to achieve fluency, no doubt due to a lack of character and determination, does not mean that other people will not be able to overcome their stutter.
Yes you are able to “stop stuttering”. It is far from easy and to achieve total fluency takes a great deal of hard work but it can be done.
Is it worth listening to negative people? Why listen to people who fail? Why listen to people who bad mouth any form of stammering therapies? Let’s face it these people are basically just the losers of our society.
I am very lucky as I had parents who brought up to think in a positive manner, to not accept second best and to work very hard to attain my goals. Perhaps these stuttering bloggers were not as fortunate as me; it is never too late to change however.
If you have a stutter then I would not feel discouraged or dismayed after reading some of these stuttering blogs. There are many other websites which have plenty of positive news and treatments for stuttering. If you are willing to work hard, you will be able to achieve fluency.
Just by conducting a simple search using the keywords of “cure for stuttering” will help you to locate the types of websites that will help you in your quest to stop stuttering.
Mar
15
2010
I once had a neighbour who was about sixty-five. She was such a negative person, very rarely smiled and seemed to moan about almost everything. She is called Nancy.
When I first moved to this particular area, I tried to make friends with the people who lived close to me, this was fairly easy as I sold Tesco Voucher Codes as well as offering a DVD duplication service for a living which was a kind of excuse for talking to them. When I first met Nancy she kept saying how ill she felt and about how her back was playing her up. I went away from this meeting feeling quite sorry for Nancy.
About a month later I met Nancy again. I asked her in a very positive and upbeat way, how she was. This was something which I later regretted asking as she then started wittering on about the many problems that she seemingly had in life. She did not have one happy thing to say. Over the next few years of living by Nancy, I actually went out of my way to avoid her.
I have to admit that I also used to feel sorry for myself. I had a stutter or what some people call a stammer which I had developed when I was a young child. I often used to wonder as to why I was given this problem. It did not seem fair to me as I believed I was a really nice person.
I lived with the stuttering problem until the age of twenty-two and then began to have a change of attitude. I started to focus on the many people in the world who had it far tougher than I did; by just looking and reading about people who live in Iraq and Afghanistan certainly opened up my eyes to a new way of thinking.
When people ask me how I am, I always give a positive answer even if I feel terrible. I try and walk around with a smile on my face and am now living life to the full. I have also managed to overcome that horrible speech impediment and to therefore learn the ways to eradicate stuttering.
I am quite confident that if Nancy and people like her were to also have a change in attitude that their lives could improve in a big way as well.
Feb
28
2010
Why do some people suffer from panic attacks? Are you a person that has suffered with panic attacks? How do you stop panic attacks from happening in the first place? How scary are panic attacks? Any person who has had a panic attack will tell you that it can be an extremely frightening experience to have such an attack, some would even state that they thought they were going to die. In this article I will be writing about the reasons some people suffer from panic attacks.
I would like to make one thing clear before I continue; I am not involved within this business sector and I am not attempting to sell you anything here. I am actually some one who provides Marks and Spencer Voucher Codes. I also have a minor role within a company offering DVD authoring and also with a firm offering advice on becoming a foster carer.
Any one person can cope with a certain amount of problems, pressures and worries, each person is different therefore there is no one particular set amount. These worries come and go as we tend to deal with each one in turn. You could try and imagine all of these issues on a conveyor belt; they join the belt and then disappear after a few times around the conveyor.
Certain people find it harder to cope with problems than others and the problems will then stay on the conveyor belt for longer. During times of great stress, perhaps a marriage break up, a death in the family, financial stress or health problems, the conveyor belt can become too full. These are things which are quite damaging to the brain and some where along the way something has to give. At times this can lead to the onset of a panic attack.
It is one thing being advised to start approaching life in a more positive manner but it is quite difficult to put it into practice. At times we all let things get on top of us and at times life can be quite stressful.
There is no disgrace in having a panic attack; in fact I am sure that you will be amazed at just how many people suffer from them. Do not feel ashamed, instead seek help from a counsellor as soon as possible, they should be able to find a solution to these annoying and scary panic attacks.
Feb
28
2010
I developed a stutter or as some people call it a stammer in childhood. I have spoken to my family regarding this and they have confirmed that I developed it when I was a young boy.
Despite regular speech therapy over the next fourteen years my stutter became worse. I remember quite clearly the fear of having to read out from a book in class. Walking into the classroom, for example an English lesson, I would see that there was a book on each desk. My mind would begin to stress and would think that the tutor would ask me to read from the book. Just waiting my turn, knowing that it would result in yet another one of those stuttering moments would be torture.
Socialising with friends was not exactly easy for me either. Most people look forward to their Friday or Saturday night outs with their mates. For me though this was not the case, I would be counting down the days as the week went on.
My worst area of speech was using the telephone. To say that the telephone was something I would avoid using would have been something of an understatement - luckily my father made the majority of the calls on my behalf. Some people may say that this was not exactly helping me in the long run. This may be correct and I was very grateful at the time.
After leaving school, I started to attend interviews to try to find employment including a very bad one at a business cost cutting company. I would normally stutter more when under pressure or when meeting new people and both of these situations are prevalent in an interview situation. I would normally arrive at the interview very tired after a lack of sleep through the stress of it all and I have to say found it very difficult to convince any employer to take me on.
As you can no doubt imagine I was eager to find a way of stopping stuttering and I did eventually attain fluency after purchasing a seventy minute self-help stuttering therapy DVD from the UK. I now live happy and successful life and as a career I now I work for a DVD authoring company.
This was my history of having a stutter and as you can see it was to have a happy ending - stuttering can be overcome with hard work and dedication.
Feb
26
2010
Mum, I could really do with your help. What is wrong Steve? It is my speech; I know I try and make out that it does not really bother me too much but this stutter is really starting to get me down. Even what the average person would class as “simple tasks” are beyond me; such as even saying my own name or answering simple questions. I find it virtually impossible to read out in front of the class without stuttering and basically I have had enough.
OK Steve, I can see how upset you are. But what about all of the help that you have been receiving at speech therapy? Are you having a laugh? It is a complete joke mum, surely you can see that. I have been going to see various speech therapists since the age of five, that is ten years now. What has been the result of all of this therapy? I am now worse than ever. So I guess you could say that speech therapy has not exactly proven to be beneficial for me. Yes I agree that the speech therapists themselves are nice enough people but they are not getting paid to be nice; they are getting paid to help people like me. The main problem being is that they just have no comprehension as to what it is like to have this form of speech impediment.
Steve, I can hear your frustration and I understand the points that you are making. I must admit my question with regards the speech therapy was rather daft – I apologise. It is now time to look for an alternative form of therapy; what we need is a new form of stuttering treatment and some proper stuttering/stammering advice.
The above was a conversation that I had with my mother when I was aged fifteen. The speech impediment at this stage was starting to create many a problem for me and I just had to find a way of eradicating it from my life.
Over the next few years, with the help of my supportive family, I worked extremely hard to find a way to stop stuttering. This was not going to be easy however and I knew that my goal to find the secrets as to how to stop stuttering would require a far amount of patience. I eventually managed to attain my life time goal of fluency when I was aged twenty-two and I have to say it was definitely worth the wait.